Whether you’re a guy living out your favourite fantasy or a girl planning a big bang type of surprise for your man of the moment, organizing a threesome may sound intimidating. It doesn’t need to be. These tips can help you plan an explosive evening of fun, flirting, and fucking for all parties.
1. Consider bringing in an experienced pro who has done this before. Not only will it take some of the pressure off of you but it will help everyone else feel a little more comfortable. After all, the entire point of this is to be a fun activity you and your partner will enjoy talking about long after the evening passes. You want it to be a playful endeavour. Having someone experienced can help drive the playful side toward the massive explosion you’re going for. Couples escorts who specialise in working with couples have plenty of experience and can help you get the party started and keep it going until everyone is well-satiated and thoroughly, happily exhausted.
2. Choose your location carefully. Many people don’t want to plan for an evening like this in your home. What will the neighbours say? Others might not give a care what the neighbours think. Or just feel more comfortable in familiar territory. However, choosing a luxury hotel, one with a hot tub or spa tub in the room or suite can add an element of fun to the occasion. Plus, you don’t have to worry as much about the noise you’ll make when that big bang comes along.
3. Make everyone as comfortable as possible. If one person is not into the event or is suffering from doubts or fears, then the threesome might lack a little in the fun department. Part of organising such an event involves ensuring that everyone feels comfortable with the arrangement. Even eager. Ladies. You want your man panting with anticipation for the main event. Guys. You don’t want your girl doubting your loyalties to her or feeling pressured into this. It won’t be nearly as much fun. For anyone.
4. Put on a show. It’s always important to keep the visuals in mind when planning and organising a threesome for sex. Men are almost always about the visual and you’ll have him ready to pop before anyone has touched him at all if you and the other lady involved enjoy each other, for his viewing pleasure, before moving on to make his favourite fantasies a reality.
5. Make sure everyone leaves happy. It’s no fun if anyone is left out of the festivities. You want to make sure that everyone has one, or more, extremely happy endings. The more orgasms involved, the greater the success of your threesome. This is an occasion that is all about pleasure, after all. Make sure everyone is quite pleased with the way things turn out.
6 .Go outside of your circle of friends to find willing participants. That way, if someone does leave the experience a little unfulfilled it won’t result in awkward encounters post threesome. Obviously, you want a great time to be had by all. The truth is that someone may have felt a little left out, especially when the threesome involves established couples who know each other’s bodies and pleasure points. The other benefit, of considering a couples escort, or of going outside of your normal circle of friends is the benefit of discretion. Not everyone wants the world to know about your nocturnal proclivities and entertainment. Friend groups are notorious gossips that can spread the word faster than flames on kindling. Seek your pleasure from without your normal circle of influence – it also adds a hint of mystery to the evening.
7. Resist the urge to over-plan. Nothing sucks the fun out of a good time faster than micromanagement. This is supposed to be a fun experience where you get to try new things and push the boundaries of your comfort zone. If you’re a Type A person who likes to be in charge, consider pushing yet another boundary by giving up control and letting someone else take the reins. Enjoy the experience and let nature take its course. You may discover new things that turn you on, new tricks that turn your partner on, and new ways to ignite massive passion in your relationship.
One of the most important things to remember about planning and organising threesomes is that they should be far more play than work. You want to keep them fun, entertaining, and pleasurable on all accounts. While this is likely something new for you, it is also the perfect time, in the heat of the moment, to try other new things you’ve thought of in the past, such as bondage, light spanking, and even power exchanges for pleasure. At the very least, it can open the door to new adventures that will keep your romance and passion burning for quite some time.
