One of the most common misconceptions about men is that they don’t care about what a woman wants in bed. As a high-class escort agency that specialises in providing what men want, one of the most common goals of clients is to actually make sure their companion has a good time too. This #MakeOutMonday reveals the #Top5 myths guys need to break away from with women in the bedroom.
Myth #1: Sex starts in the bedroom
Men may turn on like a light, but for women, arousal doesn’t always happen so quickly.
Feeling safe and secure in sex is key for a woman to really let loose during sex. A long hug can go further than you’d think. Hugging for 30 seconds stimulates oxytocin, the hormone in women that creates a sense of connection and trust.
Pave the way during the booking by hugging, kissing and holding hands. Have some fun together, and show her how excited you are to be with her.
Myth #2: Assuming you know what she wants
Each sexual encounter is different, and that’s part of the excitement. Instead of it being routine, allow yourself to open up to exploring the new heights
Don’t be afraid to ask questions like ‘how does this feel?’ or ‘do you want something different?’
Myth #3: Sticking to your plan
Pay attention to your companion, try different things and see how she responds.
When you find something that works, linger on it. Women often complain that men move on to the next thing just as they really start to enjoy an activity.
Myth #4: Keeping it strictly physical
Expand your idea of foreplay. Some men focus on physical stimulation and often ignore mental stimulation.
While men get stirred up by what they see, women fantasise a lot during sex as part of the process of arousal. Join in – share a fantasy or a sexy memory.
Myth #5: Expecting intercourse to give her an orgasm
For 80% of women, intercourse alone won’t do the trick. Why not, you may ask? Most sex positions don’t directly stimulate the clitoris.
There are other ways to pleasure her, as for example women orgasm much more consistently from oral sex than from intercourse. Also, try sex with the woman on top, or a vibrator made for couples to use during sex. Men should feel comfortable, not threatened, with sex toys. Now you have in mind what turns a woman on, why not put your tips to the test and make a booking with one of our exceptional escorts this #MakeOutMonday. Our latest roster is only one click away.